Healing and Growing through Femininity, Not Force

In the healing and personal development world, so much of what’s out there is keeping sensitive, feminine souls looping in cycles of striving, feeling confused and trying to fix themselves, instead of living, loving and creating from their deeper value, gifts and heart.

The idea that we should all be living, growing and achieving in a certain way is so damaging to women on the feminine path.

Because when this pressure builds up from the expectations of the external world, the feminine shifts into freeze mode. Which results in a feeling of feeling stuck and confused (and then usually unworthy because a woman berates herself for being stuck).

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So often in our culture, it has been unconsciously modelled to women that the way to create change is to force, push, chase and strive. So when we feel stuck, this is the natural pattern we default into.

But I have come to see that for the woman on the feminine soul path, this way of trying to force change, not only does not ‘work’ but is also deeply counterintuitive to the way her essence and heart longs to bloom..

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This full piece of writing now lives in the ‘Soften & Bloom ebook’ if you would like to read more.

Belinda x