Soften and Bloom is a collection of writings helping you to to de-armour from the striving paradigms you’ve been taught to live from, as you uncover and trust in your own natural rhythms, unforced essence and feminine heart.
I created these writings over a number of years, as I observed how often the women I worked with had usually been taught to seek healing/growth from an exhausting place of trying to “fix” themselves to fit into masculine frameworks of living, relating and achieving- creating an unending cycle of overriding and distrusting in their deeper feminine wisdom, sensitivities and heart.
I saw the way the majority of our structures and systems (including many modalities of healing/growth/spirituality) subtly trapped many women in cycles of relentlessly striving to be more, keeping them apart from their feminine being and instead pushing more extrinsic, masculinised expectations onto their path.
Through these feminine healing writings, my purpose is to inspire and illuminate the process of inner softening, where a woman’s feminine essence is naturally re-activated through reconnecting with and reclaiming the true value and gifts of her feminine being.
These writings are intended for sensitive women who feel a pull towards embracing the repressed aspects of their feminine nature, and who often struggle to trust and believe in the value of their femininity, creativity, sensitivity and spiritual heart. They have often spent much time in environments/upbringings where they have been conditioned away from valuing and resting in their feminine essence and natural unfolding, and feel ‘not enough’ or guilty if they are not striving to meet masculinised ideals.
included writings:
1. The Ways Your Feminine Essence is Seeking Healing (and why you’ve been taught to push down your feminine energy and heart)’
2. Healing and Growing through Femininity, not Force
3. The Trap of the Sensitive, Capable Woman
4. People Pleasing and Recovering from the Need to Prove Yourself
5. Are You Trying to Heal What Doesn't Need Fixing?
6. Women- Let’s Say No to This Constant Need to Optimise Ourselves
7. Blooming Into Your Desires, Dropping Forced Manifestation & Creating through the Energy of Femininity
8. The Energetic and Spiritual Heart of the Feminine
9. Healing the Martyr Wound to Restore Your Feminine Energy
10. Cultivating Faith and the Inner World of the Feminine
11. Restoring Radiance, Naturalness & the Innocence of the Feminine Heart
12. It is Safe to Be You (working with, not on yourself)
13. Trusting your Feminine Path
14. Why the Feminine Doesn’t Need to ‘Know’
15. The Gifts of Your Feminine Being Cannot Be Extracted, They Must Unfold and Bloom
16. The Rhythm of The Feminine Soul
17. Let's Talk About Spiritual Striving (and how it affects the feminine essence)
18. How Masculine Achievement Culture Impacts the Feminine Soul
19. The Essence of Feminine Being
20. Softening, instead of striving (and why softness doesn't equal weakness)
21. The Feminine Art of Softening
22. Natural Pace, Trusting Timing and Growing 'Sideways.'
23. Unravelling the Hardness We Are Taught to Carry
24. Feminine Tenderness and Why You’ve Been Taught to Diminish Your Sensitivities
25. The Nature of Feminine Integrity (and why the world steers women away from it)
26. Four qualities of the feminine that are deeply healing to a woman’s soul
27. The Beauty of the Softened Heart
28. Why the Feminine Does Not Need to Be Entirely Understood (letting go of the safety of masculine expression)
29. Tears, Tenderness and Dropping the Shame of Feminine Feeling
30. The Soft, the Subtle, the Slow (embodying the quietened realm of feminine interiority)
31. You Do Not Always Need to Be in Bloom (reclaiming the internal winter of the feminine soul)
32. On the Nature of Feminine Authority (coming home to your intuitive heart)
what women say
“I’m so incredibly grateful for your work. It’s so rich and radiant and like nothing I’ve seen.”
”I am enamored. You so beautifully articulate the essence of the feminine in a way that I’ve never heard before.”
”I can’t say thank you enough for sharing your wisdom with us in such an eloquent and compassionate way! You’ve taken everything that I’ve always felt deep down and put it into these beautiful words.”
”Profound. Such an exhale. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.”
”I am so grateful that I came across you and your work. Here I am with tears in my eyes because everything you write touches my heart and validates what has been gently calling me.”
”Soul-balming energy.”
”Your words beautifully articulate how my soul has felt for so long. Thank you for your gifts, your sharing & your heart.”
Access Details
$44 AUD
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This product is an immediate digital download, 125 pages.
terms and conditions
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Belinda x
