Why the feminine doesn’t need to “know”

The world teaches us that we need to know things unequivocally. That we need answers from the intellect, and black and white solutions to the problems of the world. That things need to make perfect sense to our logical minds, if they’re to be accepted.

Because of this, many of us hold a deeply rooted belief that we need to have all of the answers.

Yet this belief is exhausting, depleting and overwhelming to a woman’s natural feminine design.

It doesn’t allow for the unseen, the unknown, the intangible to have a place in the world- all things that are the realm of the feminine.

This makes a woman think that she needs to overwork herself trying to figure everything out.

She struggles to place the depth, the breadth, the complexity of her nature into a box, feeling pressure to understand herself through the masculine lens- through the mind, through the material, through knowing, through linearity.

She begins to push and strive to understand, no longer trusting life to reveal what she needs to know in a way and pace that is organic and divinely timed, not forced…

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This full piece of writing now lives in the Soften & Bloom ebook’ if you would like to read more.

Belinda x