Are You Trying to Heal What Doesn't Need Fixing?

So many healing modalities unconsciously reject the feminine energy, making you constantly feel as though there is something to fix and change.

This is the masculine-oriented way of solving and doing- yet this type of healing can lead to cycles of healing that seem never ending.

Because the problem is, you’re approaching healing with the flawed premise that there is something to fix.

Most women I’ve worked with, don’t need more focus on fixing. They need a way to come back to their inherent selves. They need to be nurtured back to the truth of who they are.

But instead, we’re taught to approach healing like another thing to “do.” To achieve. A means to an end. A way to “get” something.

But yet, there is a deeper part of the soul that knows that none of this will create the true fulfilment we’re looking for.

How often do we look for that secret step, that magical healing tool, that will finally allow us to live the lives that we think we should be living?

We’ve been taught that life is something to be solved, rather than something to be lived, and loved. And so we apply this same approach to ourselves.

Feminine healing means stopping your striving, unraveling what's not yours, softening your heart and finally seeing the beauty, truth and ease in being naturally you.

Yet because of the way we’ve been conditioned to live in the world, it usually takes some unraveling and uncovering to get us to this feminine-led, receptive state of being where where we can fully receive the blessings and path that God has imprinted within us. Where we can fully step into our inherent purpose and love.

The level of openness, trust and surrender required for this is something that we’ve been actively taught out of. Our masculine-oriented world teaches us to move faster, do more, prove, grind and strive. It teaches us that we need to close down our hearts to get what we want. We are never taught to soften, to receive the truth of who we are. We are never taught that our hearts’ true desires matter…

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This full piece of writing now lives in the Soften & Bloom ebook’ if you would like to read more.

Belinda x